

Couples Therapy
We never fight about anything big, but the smallest thing can trigger a big fight."​
Does this sound familiar?
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You remember being in love. When it things felt right. They were easier. But lately, you’re disconnected, and it’s been so long since you’ve felt that way about each other. Maybe you’re struggling with something that recently happened--or that happened a long time ago--and your relationship never really recovered. Or it’s been a long, slow drifting apart. Whether you’re fighting all the time, or you never talk anymore, you just keep falling back into the same old patterns, and you don't know how to change it. ​
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Couples seek therapy for a variety of reasons. Relationships are challenging and dynamic, because people are unique and complicated. While we all hope to experience fulfillment and joy from our partners, we are not often taught how to have healthy relationships. When we add life stressors, unexpected tragedies, busy schedules, digital distractions, and the many things competing for our attention it’s no surprise that we may find ourselves lacking closeness.​
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Much like a garden, the relationship is a living thing that needs tending to. Sometimes this work feels light and effortless, whereas other times it may require a lot of digging and heavy lifting. Relationships naturally go through seasons of change. Looking at the whole relationship, we will identify the path you want to be on and explore ways to get there.


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All relationship identities welcome including: traditional and non-traditional relationships or unions, married, non-married, open-ethically non-monogamous, pre-marital, LGBTQIA+ allied, and poly affirming.
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High conflict
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Empty nester changes
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Enmeshment
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Codependency
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Premarital
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Breakups
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Blended families
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Boundaries
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Financial management
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Decision making
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Infidelity
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Problem solving
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Maintenance / Check-in's
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Distress
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Disconnection
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Parenting / Co-parenting
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Emotional intimacy
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Physical intimacy
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Conflict management
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Dissolvement of the relationship
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Navigating life transitions and changes
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Trauma
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Infertility
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Communication
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​Divorce
Although the foundation of my training in couples counseling is
rooted in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT),
my approach is eclectic, integrative, and collaborative.